Do you know, what makes you successful?? Your willingness to succeed and the persuasion you have inside you for your own passion. In our life, we would like to achieve so much- deep inside down every human being has the primary goals of life such as peace, harmony, love happiness etc. Some have the realization of these, but some don’t. Some associated these goals with materialistic things such as wealth and status etc.
Most of us are aware of what our wants are, and we do have the willingness to achieve what we want, but when comes the practical aspect to achieve the goals sometimes we dwindled around if’s and but’s.
Have you ever thought about, what makes you stop achieving your goals, or taking initiatives to work for achieving your goals?? The answer is OUR own fears….. Fears of our past failures. Why? Because, we carry our past’s negative thoughts in our present, and derived and forecast results for the future.
There is famous business idiom “Higher the risk, higher the returns”. So, are you ready to achieve high returns???? Yes! Of course. I am ready to achieve the high returns no matter, I will have to take the high risk. It doesn’t matter if, I fail again, at least I have tried……. Yes, this should be the spirit. Overcoming our fears is never too late.
Great! Are we willing to take the high risk of getting high returns? Wait, can we minimize our risk??? Yes, we can….. How??? Through systematic and scientific way to approach our goals. Let’s discuss this step by step ….
Step 1. Overcome your fear. How? By immediately stopping negative self-image, by stopping bullying yourself.
Step 2. Encourage yourself. How? By, seeing the positive of yourself remembering and reminding your inner self your past achievements, the blessings you have which somehow nobody has. You have the privilege to read this article as a self-help perhaps which so many people don’t have. Isn’t it a blessing??? YES.
Step 3. Focus. One thing at a time. Try to do one thing at a time, and put your all energies for this one goal. Stepping on so many projects at a time can exhaust you.
Step 4. Do a SWOT analysis. Always remember strength and weaknesses are your internal and controllable factors. You can improve your weaknesses and increase your strength. While opportunities and threats are external on which you have no control. But you can control them through a good and scientific way of the research.
Step 5. Talk to yourself. Do I have the strengths or skills required to achieve specific goals? If, yes go ahead. Do you think there are some shortcomings which can be a hindrance to achieve the goal? If, yes. We can overcome the shortcomings by taking any course or learning new skills etc.
Opportunities: Do you think the timings to achieve your specific goal is the right time??? Do you think achieving a specific goal has a strong potential for you in future?? Research on your opportunities. Remember you can’t control the opportunities, but you can fine tune your goal achievement plan according to the available opportunities.
Threats: Threats are again un-controllable. So, don’t exhaust yourself thinking about the threats. You are right-threats are the risk. Remember “Higher the risk, higher will be the returns.
Step 6. Review review and review. Write your SWOT analysis on paper and review it 10 times. Ask for the 2nd opinion. Discuss your goals, achievements, and plans with your friends, family, subject experts, and coaches. Whoever, do you think has the skills to analyze your skills. Whoever can analysis the potential opportunities and probable threats in your goal achievement journey? Remember the old saying “Advise is the blessing”, and the millennial saying” Coaching is the blessing”.
Step 7. Be flexible. Always willing to make amendments to your research plan.
Lastly, make your self-image as an achiever. Day, dream yourself that you have achieved your goal. This is the hypnotherapeutic strategy in which you give all your potential mind energies to your inner spirit to achieve the goals. Believe me, it works.
Good luck and please do let me know your successful achievement.
Stay Blessed!
Looking forward to hearing your Success story!